You need to get out of that shell you been living in. Fortunately, you would on the right track to add some spark to your relationship. Making love is a responsibility for both of you. Take and give rule applies to sex life. If you are yet to give your man that mind blowing experience, there is a need to learn some tips that will drive him wild in bed.
First, you ought to understand that making love is not only about intercourse. In fact, most men find stimulation more enjoyable than the intercourse itself. Therefore, if you are determined to make your man happy in bed, try oral techniques. In addition, learn more techniques that will please your man other than intercourse.
Seduce him
The same way you love being seduced, it is the same way men love being seduced. In fact, a man is easily turned on with what he sees. Therefore, play with that thing and it will eventually drive him crazy in bed.
Be in control
Unfortunately, most women leave the art of making love to men. This becomes unenjoyable later on. Therefore, making love ought to
be take and give. Do not engross yourself to what you get, rather by giving you will get something in return. You need to go an extra mile and please your man in bed.
Vary positions
All men love variety. Try to break the monotony and explore various positions, which will get you more pleasure. By adding variety, you get more excitement to your sex life. Your man will start thinking you more and be ready to make love anytime you are in bed.
Do not limit it to your bedroom
Other than changing positions, it is good to explore other avenues to make love. You can try the bathroom, on the couch and other areas. However, if you have kids, you may try it outdoors.
Clear your mind
You should prepare yourself before making love. Think of ways to please him in bed. If you are not prepared, you may be distracted with thoughts of other things. Avoid thinking about kids’ school fees, bills to pay, things to be done in the office, and many more. Such things can end up making you lack enthusiasm and energy in sex. Therefore, empty your mind and offer your man all time and attention, and enjoy. Be free to explore erogenous zones of his body. This is likely to stimulate him and make him feel special.